"Recharging Your Batteries" [Part 6]

From my personal point of view........

In this challenging world today, we can't deny the importance of the needs to take frequent breaks from our hectic daily routines & schedules. With ample educations & exposures through seminars, workshops, conferences, talks, symposiums, associations, clubs and many others, most people especially women are more open up to the social life surroundings of today's modern world.

If we care to look back to the days of our parents, grand parents or even great grand parents....... there seems to be not much of any social life activities which they can pursue. Father, being the bread winner of the family is seen to be out early in the morning & back in the late afternoon pursuing their career, while mother is always seen busy with her endless house chores from very early in the morning till late at night.

I sincerely felt that this article "Recharging Your Batteries" is such an important article which needs to be shared with everyone out there. Though the needs varies from each individuals, the general overview of it is important to help us open up our minds so that we can all have a better understanding of the importance of leisure which enables us to stay healthy, happy and be more productive in performing our daily duties, be it in our working life or at home.

Another point which I fully agree with the author of this article is that, leisure does not necessarily have to be something costly, a holiday or trip to a far away place or taking up some expensive hobbies which not everyone can afford. It must be something which is within our individual means, or else it will end up with more stress than the actual intention of "recharging our batteries".........

"The end of labor is to gain leisure" ~ Aristotle ~

"Those who decide to use leisure as a means of mental development, who love good music, good books, good pictures, good plays, good company, good conversation -- what are they? They are the happiest people in the world"
~ William Lyon Phelps ~

"If you are losing your leisure, look out; you may be losing your soul"
~ Logan P. Smith ~

"They talk about the dignity of work. The dignity is in leisure"
~ Herman Melville ~

"The best intelligence test is what we do with our leisure"
~ Laurence J. Peter ~

"Recharging Your Batteries" [Part 5]

Does your mind always return from vacation when you do?

Even after a marvelous vacation, many people are glad to be home again in familiar surroundings. Others may feel out of synch and disoriented. They are victims of post-vacation dysphoria, or "vacation lag."

This condition results from the mind's reaction to the contrast between an easygoing holiday existence and the pressures of everyday life. It may be especially acute for people in very stressful occupations or for those stuck in jobs they dislike intensely.

One tip for beating post-vacation anxieties: plan to come home a few days before you have to report back to work. A few quiet days of reorientation may make returning to the job easier to handle.

Sometimes vacation lag can push people to make positive changes in their lives. They may simply add extra leisure activities to their week. Or they may decide to change jobs or seek career or psychiatric counseling.

What if you just can't get away?

The value of vacations can hardly be overstated. However, if job pressures prevent you from taking the time off that you have earned, a few stolen moments in the middle of the day can be effective in reducing stress and bringing the change of pace you need. Many companies today encourage longer and more frequent break times, because experts have shown that periodic rest breaks increase worker productivity. Taking a break can also inspire creative solutions to intractable problems.

"Recharging Your Batteries" [Part 4]

What is the best way to spend leisure time?

People's ideas of how to use their leisure vary greatly, of course. For some the perfect way is to settle down with a good book. For others it may be working in the garden, or dancing till dawn on a Caribbean cruise, or back-packing through the Himalayas. Up-bringing and personal tastes, researchers believe, determine which leisure activity is most fulfilling.

Sometimes, social pressure has a lot to do with the choice of a leisure pursuit. People seeking to conform to a fashionable ideal, such as going to a popular resort or an exotic locale, or owning a boat or vacation home, often do so as the risk of increasing their stress rather than reducing it. A simpler, more restful - not to mention less expensive - vacation might have been a better way to recharge mentally and physically.

"Recharging Your Batteries" [Part 3]

Why do some people find it so difficult to relax?

Workaholics tend to see time off as time wasted. They typically feel that every minute has to be devoted to attaining the goals they have set for themselves. They may be corporate presidents or college students, but they share an inability to relax.

An excessive and compulsive drive for achievement may be based on a distortion of a deeply ingrained work ethic. Counselors have found that one way to persuade workaholics to relax is to convince them that time off will improve their productivity, that giving themselves time to refuel will enable them to perform twice as well.

For many, taking it easy is something they must actually learn to do. They have to consult "leisure counselors," who may advise them to try to discover the hidden benefits of leisure by seeking out activities as far removed as possible from the daily routines of the job. A counselor might also recommend that dedicated workaholics join a leisure-oriented club or make a list of things they have always secretly wanted to do.

"Recharging Your Batteries" [Part 2]

What is the healthiest way to approach a vacation?

Anyone setting out on a vacation should firmly resolve to put day-to-day responsibilities not only out of sight but out of mind. The most beneficial vacations are real breaks from everyday life. It is also important to approach a vacation with an open mind. This means being willing to accept what the vacation has to offer, come what may, and being ready to savor the new and the different. It means being able to relax despite the minor inconveniences of travel that invariably arise.

Some people want constant stimulation during their vacations. They must see everything on their itinerary and end their evenings in a disco. Others prefer to sightsee for a couple of hours a day and then take advantage of free time to unwind. "Real relaxation lies in the enjoyment of experience," says one specialist in the use of leisure. If family or friends are along, this expert urges, it is important to spend some time alone every day. This need to be no more than 20 minutes, but too much togetherness can bring its own irritations.

No one has written more felicitously about getting away from it all than the American author John Steinbeck in his book Travels With Charley. "A trip, a safari, an exploration, is an entity, different from all other journeys. It has personality, temperament, individuality, uniqueness. A journey is a person in itself; no two are alike. And all plans, safeguards, policing and coercion are fruitless. We find after years of struggle that we do not take a trip; a trip takes us. Tour masters, schedules, reservations, brass-bound and inevitable, dash themselves to wreckage on the personality of the trip. In this a journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it."

"Recharging Your Batteries" [Part 1]

Today's working people are more prone to stress due to heavy work commitments, competitive work environments, economic down turn, over expectations from employers as well as family members and many other unavoidable situations.........

This useful article which I've read is worth sharing to enable us to manage our stress level, by having a better understanding of this simple phrase "Recharging your batteries".

How important is leisure?

Many psychologists see leisure as an essential counterbalance to work. Overwork can contribute to harmful stress and can diminish the ability to concentrate and to perform a job effectively. Leisure activities refresh and revitalize the body and the mind.

The brain, according to experts, needs stimulation of various kinds in order to stay in top form. Some of us do not mind repetitive daily routines, but others are bored by them, especially if they continue over weeks and months. When this occurs, the brain adapts by reducing its level of activity, but then the brain has mechanisms that kick in and arouse a need for stimulation. A craving for a change of pace, even a desire for excitement, can occur. Leisure, by offering a change of routine, can be one way of getting the brain working at the top of its form again.

Too much change, however, can be as bad as no change at all. If your schedule is never the same from day to day, you may begin to long for peace and quiet and for time to relax and restore yourself. Cravings like these many be linked to the levels of neurotransmitters in your brain.

"Cheerfullness and contentment are great beautifiers and are famous preservers of youthful looks"
~ Charles Dickens ~

"A Happy & Blessed Easter"

Again, on this special season of the year, I would like to wish everyone out there, near & far 'A Happy & Blessed Easter'. May God's abundance blessings, graces & prayers be always upon us all...........

My personal views........[1]

"Mistakes are painful when they happen
But year's later collection of mistakes is called experience, which leads to success!"

How many people do admit their own mistakes??? If we care to observe people and situations around us each day, we tend to agree to the fact that most people do not like owning up to their mistakes with the very simple reason of personal pride & egoism.

I believe that no one is perfect, and in one way or another we tend to make mistakes, just a matter of fact whether the mistake is a minor or serious one!!!

We can't deny that serious mistakes are always painful when it happens and most people are unable to accept the fact of such a mistake. Some even try to hide from it ; others will put the blame on people around them; while there are some who even manage to put an act as if it is not their fault.

Looking at mistakes positively and be brave to come forward to own up and accept them will bring us to achieve greater success and heights. It is through mistakes that we learn to do things the right way as along the way we gain experiences. We will then be more wise as we learn from such mistakes and will remind our self not to make the same mistake again.

A 'must visit garden' for all orchid lovers!

Having this passion & admiration for plants that bear flowers since I was young, I just couldn't wait any longer to visit Kuching's one and only 'Orchid Garden' which was recently officiated by our CM on 5th March 2010.

On the morning of 17th March (Wednesday), I went to pick up my childhood friend Alice and her daughter Alicia, and off we headed to the site of this so called 'DBKU Orchid Garden'. This Orchid Garden is strategically located in a park setting on a 15.4 acres site within the vicinity of the magnificent New Dewan Undangan Negeri Sarawak, the historical Astana and the Ford Margherita.

As the saying 'Pictures/photos tells a thousand stories', so ......... let these photos below relate all the magnificent beauty & views of this fabulous orchid garden to all.......

Anyway, these are not all....... there are much more for you all to experience in person. Remember...... don't let the beauty of these orchids kept waiting......... grab your chance and see for yourself now!

From the OLD to the NEW

From the old.........
to the new.........

These two photos are not extracted from any other sources but personally captured using my NIKON COOLPIX 5100 digital camera dated this very day itself. With the migration of our state's legislative complex it is symbolic to make an account of it as history is something which we might need to recap in the future.........