Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Useful tips on Leadership for sharing

Old magazines, though it's normally seen as useless and is taking up the space of our shelf or cupboard cabinets can come handy at times. Recently, I've read an article regarding Leadership in an old magazine dated September 1984 by Ronald D. Kelly. As the contents of this article is in line with what I've written in my earlier Blog, I would like to extract some of these useful tips for purpose of sharing with all readers out there......

Courage to Be a Leader

Leaders are not actors on a stage. An actor puts on, plays, a role. After the play, the actor goes home to his real everyday world. The leader is at all times living real situations.

Those who lead will always make some mistakes. With mistakes comes a spate of criticism. It takes courage to put up with the critics. But a real leader has to have the ability to put aside the mistakes, learn lessons and press forward.

I read a statement many years ago that has given me a great deal of hope through life's frequent trails--"He is a success who does the right thing 51 percent of the time."

Or as someone else said, "The only ones who never fail are the ones who never try."

Those of you who are parents might well reflect on teaching your children that admirable quality of courage. To be able to step out and do--and to take the correction that comes from making a mistake. Then get up and try again.

Perhaps the lessons of history will best bear this out. We have been living in civilized societies for nearly 6,000 years. In the course of human events, countless mistakes have been made. Thus, the study of the past, to learn lessons from history, is imperative for any leader.

It has often been said those who do not learn from mistakes of the past are doomed to repeat them.

Those who do learn those lessons can in confidence step out with courage, stand for right principle and lead humanity to greater heights. With this quality there is hope for leadership in the years to come.


Vision for the Future

Another of the important qualities a leader must possess is vision. One who leads must see beyond the mundane problems of here and now and be able to envision what tomorrow can be.

There will always be plenty of problems for today. The future may at times indeed look bleak. But vision of what ought to be, coupled with knowledge of how to bring it about, separates great leaders from common people.

With nearly every change of leadership comes hope. This is especially true in what are are called democratic societies where aspiring leaders promise, if elected, to bring about a much better world for the rest of us.

It is not at all uncommon to hear election rhetoric promising "a new brand of leadership." Many a persuasive politician has been elected to office based on promises of change.

But far too frequently, once elected, the hoped-for changes don't seem to appear. The promise to reduce the federal or national debt, to boost the economy, to relieve the public from burdensome taxes, to restore the pride of the nation abroad, all seem to fade so quickly.

So, in the next election year, nations go through it all again. The incumbents tells us if we just give them another term, the policies they have implemented will work. The opposition parties point out the failures of the present leadership and promise their "new leadership" will bring the desired results.

The true leader with vision knows the way is difficult--that the road to success is indeed narrow and rutty.

The leader with vision is one who not only can "hang in there" when the going is rough, but can see the light at the end of the tunnel. The truly great leader can stand fast, maintain his poise and leadership with confidence when no one else can see the possibility there even is an end to the dark tunnel, much less light at the end of it.

Such leaders of vision are indeed few and far between.

Consistency and Dependability

There are few things more disconcerting than a fickle leader. If those who follow cannot depend on consistency, there is confusion.

Yet, how many times have individuals risen to high positions and then wavered like reeds in the breeze on major issues.

Leaders need not only principles and values, but the character to stand by those principles. Thomas Jefferson once said, "In matters of principle, stand like a rock."

Political leaders must be extremely careful not to offend any group or segment of society. To do so well might be political suicide. So, in some democratic countries a bland society has developed.

In times of stress it is extremely important to have consistent and dependable leaders--ones who have stated their concepts and who can be depended upon to stand fast, in spite of whatever may come. If necessary a great leader even has to be willing to give his life for what he stands for.

We live in an age that cries out for strong leaders of principle. In the family, on the job, in business and, government, in one way or another each of us is a leader. Those of us who are parents are training tomorrow's leaders.

You can grow in courage, learning from each of your mistakes along the way. You can look into the future with vision for a better world. You certainly can become consistent and dependable.

To choose the path of leadership is not the easy way. It never has been. It never will be.

But the world needs it now. And is waiting on strong men and women of principle who will stand like a rock.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

My personal perception on 'Leadership'

How many ever realise that we are all leaders in one way or another? I believe many will consider leaders as someone who hold high posts; those who indulge in activities of organisations or clubs; or the most outstanding of all our State and Country's Political Leaders. If this is what we have in mind, then, it is indeed a wrong perception!

Let us not forget that each and everyone of us are leaders in our own home and family. Leading a family is as huge a responsibility as leading an organisation, though there are some differences in terms of expectations, requirements, procedures and processes.

The building up of this leadership qualities starts early in life, whereby many might not realise! For example, in any group of children or youngsters who get together for games, sports or even during their studies in class, a few always seem to take the lead. It can be seen for those who have no leadership quality, as they will not be willing to step forward, instead will just shy off!

Whatever the scenario may be, it is from this childhood years that helps build up these leadership skills, which by the time their educational years are over, there will be possibility for them to be potential leaders as they step into their career life. Others might be leaders in organisations or clubs, while some in politics.

In any circumstances, it is not always that these young leaders grow up to benefit mankind, while for some they may not grow up to be leaders at all. Occasionally, a rather quiet and shy youngster develops later in life those qualities of leadership and goes on to become a corporate figure or political leader.

Though leaders are aplenty in every fields and areas, it is sad to say that there are many who don't lead with sincerity. Such a situation will set bad examples to others as the phrase 'The best example of leadership is leadership by example!' Why is it so??? It is as simple as people tends to follow their leaders - what they say, do, request, etc.

I strongly believe that good leaders should embrace the full spirit of 'PROFESSIONALISM', which many are still lacking. Many still lead according to their whims and fancies! Leaders should be able to accept the views of those within the team, not just expecting others to follow blindly. Everyone should be given equal opportunity in discussions or debate. Whatever decisions made must be beneficial to everyone concerned, whereas irresponsible leaders tends to point fingers and decisions are made for purpose of personal gain. Based on my personal experience, decisions from co-members can be more effective than those from the top. How many care to think that way?????

Professional leaders can and will accept constructive criticism for the betterment of an organisation, or in the case of politics, professional political leaders will bring their State or Country to achieve great heights. With full trust, respect and sincere support from the people the country's leaders will reap great rewards with stable economic growth and development; unity, respect and care among the people as well as it's leaders; and setting good examples to our neighboring countries and finally gaining full respect from the whole world!!

Finally, before I end, I would like to share some beautiful quotes.......

"The quality of leadership, more than any other single factor, determines the success or failure of an organization"
~ Fred Fiedler & Martin Chemers ~
(Improving Leadership Effectiveness)

"Lead and inspire people. Don't try to manage and manipulate people. Inventories can be managed but people must be lead"
~ Ross Perot ~

"Leadership should be born out of the understanding of the needs of those who would be affected by it".
~ Marian "Anderson ~

The Lord Has Risen! Alleluia!!


The Lord Has Risen! Alleluia!!

May the Good Lord continue to bless each and everyone who believes in Him!!

Friday, April 22, 2011

A Holy Day for Christians......

Christians all over the world are celebrating this Holy Day for Jesus who willingly died for us on the cross for our sins. Let us all come together in prayer to thank Him for this greatest deed which He have for us all.......

"May The Lord Holds us in His love and blesses us with His grace on this Holy Day and always"

Sunday, April 17, 2011

What a Relief!! Election is over.......

With all the campaigning from the different parties for the last few weeks, finally the State Election is all over!!! The streets of Kuching City early this morning seems to be quiet...... guess, most people are still in bed getting their 'beauty sleep!'

It is indeed a BIG Change for the opposition party - DAP and PKR....... Cheers and Thumbs UP!! Change is necessary for the betterment of any State and Country, so let us all be gentlemen, whether win or loose everyone should accept the result without any hard feelings. No matter which party won, with the election over, we as the people of Sarawak will be looking forward to a great future in this beautiful 'Land of The Hornbill'.

Till we all meet again in the next State Election five years time, here's wishing us all the best and God Bless!!

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

My sincerest point of view........

For generations, we Malaysians, despite the differences in race, religion and culture have been blessed with living together in love, peace, joy, harmony, respect, care, concern and support for each other.

Today, situations seems to be changing, not for good though. To be very frank, looking at the present scenario makes me wonder????? Will we be able to continue to live in peace and harmony as we used to????? Is there going to be light at the end of the tunnel for us all???? What will be the outcome for the future generations???????

Everything has it's limit, so with the state election coming up in four short days are we opting for a change??????


"Change means that what was before wasn't perfect.
People want things to be better"
~ Esther Dyson ~


Many questions seem to be popping into our heads, but to make things happen we must all dare to make changes in order to make the difference!

"We must become the change we want to see"
~ Mahatma Gandhi ~

Changes takes place in every phases of our life, and yet there are many who resist change. Without change we will all be deprive of new opportunity, progress, growth, happiness, hope and wisdom.

"Without change, something sleeps inside us, and seldom awakens.
The sleeper must awaken"
~ Frank Herbert ~

Here's what Charles E. Rice, CEO of Barnett Bank got to say........

"Think of managing change as an adventure. It tests your skills and abilities. It brings forth talent that may have been dormant. Change is also a training ground for leadership. What we think of leaders, we remember times of change, innovation and conflict. Leadership is often about shaping a new way of life. To do that, you must advance change, take risks and accept responsibility for making change happen"

Good and responsible leaders brings a State or Country to achieve great heights but an irresponsible self-centered leaders brings forth disaster instead!

"The best example of leadership, is leadership by example"
~ Jerry McClain ~

"The quality of leadership, more than any other single factor, determines the success or failure of an organization"
~ Fred Fiedler & Martin Chemers 'Improving Leadership Effectiveness' ~

Anything that is stagnant tends become too complacent, same applies to the scenario of leadership in all aspect. In the case of politics, complacency will lead to negligence of the leaders which affects the state or country's growth and future developments, the needs of the people, respect and care for the people who pledge their support and hoping for a better tomorrow and many others........

Mother Theresa's precious words seems to echo in me and makes me wonder????????

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless"

Many a times, "being a common people leading a simple, contented life and who never offend others" instead, we are being offended by the hush and uncalled for statements from some of those irresponsible leaders, which are then being 'picked up' by some other irresponsible people down the line....... and it goes on and on....... For information, I am one of those unlucky people who experience such a situation at one of the Government's Poliklinik in Kuching. I trust that if such a situation continues our country's peace, unity and harmony will be at stake!!!

Respect is a two way traffic and it needs to be earned! If we want others to respect us we must respect each other! This principle applies not only for common people like us but everyone in general - age, rank, authority and gender doesn't make any difference!

Being a responsible citizen, I place my concern for this coming state election. Let us all make wise decisions for a better tomorrow where peace, unity and harmony prevails in this multi-racial state of Sarawak and country Malaysia!

'May God bless us all!'
"Praise The Lord, Puji Tuhan"

Monday, April 11, 2011

Multitude ways of serving noodles.......

With variety of noodles available in our local market, we get to have opportunity to prepare noodle dishes in many ways, ranging from dry, soup or fried. Noodles are served at any meals, even for breakfast. I recall a friendly comment from a european couple having breakfast at a local hotel in Penang that it is not a norm for them have noodles for breakfast, instead just bread and eggs which we normally called 'American Breakfast'.

Noodles are most popular among the Chinese families, either eating out or home cooked. Personally, I've tried a hand on some of the types of noodles available from our local market and here's the outcome of it........

(Left) Claypot Noodles (Right) Mee Sua Soup

(Left) Stir fried longevity noodles
(Right) Fried Meehoon



(Left) Stir fried
yellow noodles
(Right) Henghua noodles

Mee Sua served with fried leek, cabbage, mushroom & chicken slices

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Laughter Is The Best Medicine!

'Laughter Is The Best Medicine' is a phrase which most people will agree with. Many a times when we are down, worry over something or feeling stress, a good laugh will change such a situation!

As April 1st to 7th is Laugh Week, let us all spread laughter around so as to make this world a better place for us all to live in......

CHEERS to all...........

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

A Cruising Experience.......

The thought of cruising have always been in my mind, especially in one of the many big ships which we've seen through advertisements, but having to think that we will only see the inside of the ship, the views of the open ocean, sea and sky for a continuous couple of days during the trip....... well, why not just have a try out on the "Day Cruise!"

I believe that to some people they will love such a holiday, away from solid grounds BUT some might regard it as BORING!

My friend Alice, her daughter Alicia, Aunty Su and myself then made plans to try out on this Day Cruise - Amusement World.

Here goes the itinerary of our 4 days 3 nights stay in Penang:-

17th March (Thursday), myself and aunt Su flew in from Kuching to Penang whereas Alice and Alicia from KL to Penang. After meeting up, we took a bus from the airport to KOMTAR Bus Station, then a taxi straight to our YMCA Hostel situated at Macalister Road.

18th March (Friday), we took a bus to Jetty, purchase tickets for our Cruise and board the Amusement World which started sailing at 10.30 in the morning......


Throughout the nine and a half hours inside the ship this is what we get to do......... BINGO Game; lunch @ 11.oo am.; take a stroll at the ship's corridor as well as it's deck, enjoying the outside views and taking photos; Karaoke Session; visit 'The Pharoah's Chamber" which is the ship's gambling den; listening to songs from 'The Fantasy Band'; get the opportunity to view the different types of Cabin available in the ship; shopping and finally another food session - DINNER @ 6.00pm. The ship docked at 8.00pm, unboard, walk to the bus station, took a bus to KOMTAR, interchange another bus No.10 to YMCA Hostel.

19th March (Saturday), after breakfast in the hostel we took a bus to Kek Lok Si Temple.........


We then settle down for a filling bowl of Prawn Mee/Hokkien Mee and coconut water, which really helps quench my thirst as I've perspired so much through our journey up and down the long stretch of walkways to the temple. After our meal we took another bus ride to another famous Thai Buddhist Temple which houses a 180-foot gold-plated reclining Buddha statue, one of the longest in Asia.......

20th March (Sunday), we wake up early, have our breakfast, took a bus to Botanical Garden......


After a 'sweat-busting' morning, we take a bus back to our hostel, relax for a while, take a bath, changed and check out. We took a taxi to KOMTAR, have our lunch nearby, bought our bus tickets and our bus journey to the airport is a scary one as the driver is 'one-of-a-kind!' Our flight time is on schedule, 1740 hrs. and the journey takes roughly about two hours. It's indeed a trip of journeying through the Pearl Of The Orient, with lots of bus rides, miles of walking and lots of sweating!!